Not a fan of tough love

August 27, 2018 “I’m just giving you tough love because I care” Well. Care enough then, to shut your mouth. And keep it closed. Thanks. As you can see, I’m not a fan of ‘tough love’. I think when you love someone – it shouldn’t hurt. It shouldn’t feel like someone is taking a jackhammerContinue reading “Not a fan of tough love”

the 3 P’s and a C

April 23, 2019 Hey you, I’m at work and I really love this job. I don’t know if I love it because 1) I really need a job 2) It’s temporary so I’m not getting caught up in making friends/impressing people but I like coming into work every day and time goes by really fast.Continue reading “the 3 P’s and a C”

Sweaty palms

March 08, 2017 My prayer for me: That my palms wont be sweaty tomorrow – so I can hold your handThat God gives me wisdom to answer you with, so I can give you solid adviceThat I don’t just listen to you – but that I can read between the lines and really hear you when you speakThatContinue reading “Sweaty palms”

Good memories

March 07, 2017 In an effort not to combust from all the RAGE I’m experiencing – here is a happy moment in my life a like to reflect on from time to time… When I was struggling under the weight of control “Gareth” had over me…on one of the rare afternoons Gareth wasn’t home “watchingContinue reading “Good memories”

The things we remember

January 29, 2017 I’ve read a lot of posts on FB lately about the same topic – what we choose to remember. “Do 100 things right, no one says a word, but do ONE thing wrong – and they’ll never forget it” “No one remembers all the good things you did for them – theyContinue reading “The things we remember”

Ultimate Wingman

My friend Troy has been single a long time. Like…a really, REALLY LONNNNNNNGGG time. So, me being me – I had to step in and help the guy. I appointed myself “ultimate wingman” and set up a dating profile for Troy on “Plenty of Fish“. It’s a bit scary how easy it is to beContinue reading “Ultimate Wingman”

memories of my Dad…and the dreaded musli bowl

March 11, 2013 Hey, There’s a random bowl of unappealing muesli on the Reception counter. It was ‘left over’ from one of the big meetings upstairs – along with a plateful of chocolate biscuits with vanilla cream in the middle. One guess which snack got entirely devoured first? Anyway, Bill and another Director from the meeting (fromContinue reading “memories of my Dad…and the dreaded musli bowl”

Why I love Alun

June 13, 2012 First of all, let me tell you he drives me crazy. He drives me freakin’ nuts! He takes my frayed nerves and joyfully shakes them with all his might at the worst of times. But he always does it with a ‘cheeky chappy’ grin. So I cant stay mad for long. WeContinue reading “Why I love Alun”

For you, Jonathan.

January 29, 2011 ** a letter to my ex husband I wrote years and years ago…enjoy ** Hi Jonathan, How are you? Im writing to you on my blog because whenever we have spoken over the last year and a half, we are both too full of emotion to think clearly and calmly. Im alsoContinue reading “For you, Jonathan.”

Missing a baddie

Isn’t friendship an odd thing? We pick someone we like, if they like us back, we become friends. We connect on something we mutually like and that’s it…friends. We start hanging out and ‘doing stuff’ together. I’m someone who takes Friendship very seriously. When I like someone, I am 100% your biggest fan and I’llContinue reading “Missing a baddie”