Category: self love

• Just…do what you can.

  

  Depression is an insidious bastard. I’m caught up in it’s awful, sticky grip right now and it makes very simple things suddenly very difficult. Like showering. Showering means I have to take off my clothes. All of them. Already I am overwhelmed at the thought of undressing. It already feels like too much to have […]

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  June 9, 2022

  Burnt out, depression, fed up, identity, Illness, Life, rest, self help, self love

  cantcope, depression, Life, mental illness, toohard, toomuch, toopainful

• Gardening is my favourite hobby xx

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  May 7, 2022

  food, gardening, goals, happiness, happy memories, identity, Life, rest, self help, self love

  garden, gardening, goodforthesoul, happyplace, organic, our own fruits, our own veggies, sustainability

• The State that I’m in

  Firstly, the blessing is that I’m loved. I have SO MANY amazing, caring, sweet, incredible friends, an extraordinary husband and a Mom who loves me so very much. She drives me nuts, but she’s my Mom. I’m so thankful for at least ONE parent in my life. I will forever miss my Dad being around. […]

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  January 29, 2022

  anxiety, death, depression, family, Fears, Friends, grief, Grieving, identity, Life, loss, mental illness, panic attacks, rest, self help, self love, suicide, The Beach, Work

  abused, anxiety, burntout, cantgoon, Dad, depression, family, grief, Ineedhelp, mental illness, pleasehelpme, suicidalagain

• If you could, what year would you time-travel to and why?

  #bloganuary #bloganuary2022 #BloganuaryChallenge #BloganuaryPrompt21 The answer for me is easy – 2009. The BEST and worst year of my entire life. The worst – Because I decided my marriage was breaking me down so I asked for a divorce. I singlehandedly moved from the house with my then-husband in UK back to Australia and I […]

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  January 28, 2022

  bloganuary, dating, divorce, family, food, Friends, Humour, identity, Life, loss, love, Relationships, self help, self love

  2009forthewin, Life, livingmybestlife, sexyJD, thinandwinning

• Learning and growing

  It’s been 2 weeks since I was first admitted to the Psychiatric Ward here at Hollywood Clinic. I can’t believe it’s been so long, it only feels like a few days. I’ve learnt a lot in group therapy about calming myself down when I feel distressed, about “radical acceptance” of things I can’t change and […]

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  January 11, 2022

  family, Favouritism, Fears, Friends, hospital, identity, Illness, Life, mental illness, Relationships, self help, self love

  birthdays, Friends, lettingGo, peoplepleasing, radicalacceptance, unhealthycopingmechanisms

• I’ve been admitted to a Private psych ward

  I’ve been in so much mental anguish for so long that I knew I had to reach out for help. I asked my Doctor to write me a referral to 4 of the Private Psych Hospitals here in Perth and God made a way because I got admitted to HC yesterday afternoon. I shook as […]

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  September 25, 2021

  anxiety, depression, Fears, grief, Grieving, hospital, Illness, Life, loss, mental illness, rest, self help, self love

  afraid, anxiety, anxious, bereavement, blessings, Dad, DadDied, dark thoughts, days off, depression, fatigued, fear, fed up, Feeling Alone, grateful, grief, Grieving, Hospital visit, hurting, lossofDad, LossofFamilyMember, mental illness, mental illness awareness, mentalhealth, myownadvocate, panicattacks, profoundhurt, psychward, recharge, recovery, reset, Resilience, rest, self heal, severe depression, social anxiety, stayorgo, stress, struggles, struggling, suffering, suicidal thoughts, suicide, taking chances, timebymyself, toughchoices

• The time I almost hit a homeless woman

  I know, shocking hey? But yep, it really did happen…or almost did. There I was, walking down Murray Street and I was on the phone to Dad, just chatting away about our days, maybe we were planning to meet up for dinner that night? No idea. I just know Dad was on the phone when […]

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  August 4, 2021

  homelessness, Humour, Life, Relationships, self help, self love

  assertyourself, boxinggloveson, Comeatmebro, dontmesswithJD, fighter, homelesswoman, standUp

• An update on my Memoir

  So Damn Excited.

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  August 3, 2021

  Life, self love, Work, writing

  author, authorsLife, Authorstruggles, bookdeal, buddingwriter, memoir, publishingdeal, Writer

• Stuffing grief down to my feet

  …doesn’t work, guys. It just does NOT work. I am trying to go to work – full 8 hour days at the office (Praise God, I’m in a really great job with very little responsibility or I would have fallen apart ages ago) and be ‘normal’ while inside I’m crumbling and hurting over my Dad’s […]

  janetdthomas77

  August 3, 2021

  depression, Fears, grief, Grieving, Illness, Life, loss, mental illness, rest, self help, self love

  exhausted, grief, Life, loss, Relationships, rest

• I’m walking away

  So today, I need to come up with a final decision for my boss. Here’s what’s been going on in the last few days: I’ve posted on Facebook about my struggle to decide and beloved friends have weighed in – albeit very gently – on it. Some are for staying, some are for leaving. Great. […]

  janetdthomas77

  July 14, 2021

  depression, family, Fears, grief, Grieving, Life, loss, self help, self love, Work

  choosesomething, contracting, decisions, hardtochoose, Life, templife, toughchoices, Work, worklife