Category: divorce

• “You Owe Me”

  I love Church, me. I love going because even just being in the building makes me feel at ease. I love listening to the Sermons, because I always learn something that’s really important. One Sermon in the past talked about us all being sauce bottles and that we wouldn’t know what we were really like…

  janetdthomas77

  February 1, 2023

  Christian life, communication, divorce, dodging bullets, Facts are facts, Fears, identity, Life, loss

  divorce, Life, painfulmemory, Relationships, rememberthis, uglysideofdivorce, unbalanced, unfair

• Black box

  A talented artist Stan Walker sings a song I LOVE called “Black Box” where in the chorus he sings “There’s a little black box yeah, somewhere in the ocean…holding all the truth about us…there’s a little black box, a record of emotion…everything there ever was…” (** Black boxes are anti-breakable boxes on planes that record…

  janetdthomas77

  May 19, 2022

  abuse, addiction, alcohol, anxiety, depression, divorce, identity, love, marriage, mental illness, narcissist, Relationships

  abuse, addiction, Amber Heard, black box, cheating, divorce, Johnny Depp, pain, Relationships, Trial

• A happy memory

  When I told Jon I wanted a divorce, he left our house that night and moved back in with his family. Jon was surrounded by an entire, loving family while I paced up and down in the living room on my own for months afterwards. The first few days after Jon had left, the electricity…

  janetdthomas77

  April 29, 2022

  anxiety, cheating, depression, divorce, family, Fears, Friends, Grieving, happy memories, Illness, kindness, Life, loss, love, rest

  anapwillfixalot, anxiety, depression, friendship, friendswillliftyouup, goodfriends, Life, mental illness, Relationships, sleepisnecessary, sleepisvital, thankfulforfriends

• Facts are facts

  The worst thing about suffering with mental illness is that you can’t trust yourself. You live in a constant state of gaslighting yourself “did that really happen or did I imagine it?”. It is the worst thing to suffer from – not being able to trust your own thoughts. When I’m in the depths of…

  janetdthomas77

  April 29, 2022

  anxiety, bullies, communication, depression, divorce, Facts are facts, Fears, Friends, grief, identity, Illness, Life, mental illness, Police

  anxiety, depression, factsarefacts, Fears, Life, mental illness, mentalhealth, Relationships

• Spilling some tea

  You boiled the kettle, so enjoy the tea bitch.

  janetdthomas77

  April 18, 2022

  abuse, anxiety, cheating, coercive control, communication, divorce, marriage, mental illness, money, Relationships, remarriage

  cheating, comeback, disgusted, divorce, Life, mommasaidknockyouout, notsilentanymore, Relationships, revengeisbestservedcold, takethat, youngprey

• If you could, what year would you time-travel to and why?

  #bloganuary #bloganuary2022 #BloganuaryChallenge #BloganuaryPrompt21 The answer for me is easy – 2009. The BEST and worst year of my entire life. The worst – Because I decided my marriage was breaking me down so I asked for a divorce. I singlehandedly moved from the house with my then-husband in UK back to Australia and I…

  janetdthomas77

  January 28, 2022

  bloganuary, dating, divorce, family, food, Friends, Humour, identity, Life, loss, love, Relationships, self help, self love

  2009forthewin, Life, livingmybestlife, sexyJD, thinandwinning

• For you, Jonathan.

  January 29, 2011 ** a letter to my ex husband I wrote years and years ago…enjoy ** Hi Jonathan, How are you? Im writing to you on my blog because whenever we have spoken over the last year and a half, we are both too full of emotion to think clearly and calmly. Im also…

  janetdthomas77

  April 21, 2021

  Christian life, dating, divorce, Fears, Humour, Life, love, Relationships, remarriage

  boys, breakups, divorce, exhusband, husband, men, Relationships, remarriage

• Divorce and Remarriage

  Hey, I have nothing to do at work. I’ve re-filled the printers with paper, tidied the stationery cupboard, loaded the dishwasher, tidied the kitchen and both meeting rooms are being used, or I would have tidied them, too. I’ve checked work emails and responded to everything – which left me with an hour to go…

  janetdthomas77

  April 18, 2021

  Christian life, dating, divorce, Humour, Life, love, Relationships, remarriage

  divorce, exhusband, marriage, Relationships, remarriage