If he says “Let’s keep having sex,

but no more kissing, ok?”

It’s not ok.

You have every right to feel hurt.

And he is not the one for you.

11 responses to “If”

    1. Thank you, Romit πŸ™‚

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  1. If your partner is unwilling to respect your boundaries or tries to pressure you into doing something you’re not comfortable with, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship and consider whether it’s truly healthy and fulfilling for you. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who respects and values you, and who is willing to listen and compromise in order to build a mutually fulfilling relationship.

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    1. Darlington, that’s really beautiful advice. Thank you so much for reaching out in kindness πŸ’• I wish I’d had you to talk to 13 years ago when it was happening!

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      1. Are you on Twitter? I was looking to see you there but no luck yet.

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      2. No, sorry. No twitter for me. I’m on Instagram though?

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      3. You have good materials here it will be wise to create and share most of your work on Twitter, this will bring more audience to your master class writing and this will be easy to share on Twitter once you have an account, that’s my observation. Thank you. πŸ₯°

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  2. It’s important to listen to your feelings and boundaries in any situation. If you don’t feel comfortable with the idea of continuing a sexual relationship without kissing, it’s completely understandable to express that to your partner. It’s okay to prioritize your own needs and wants in a relationship.

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    1. Thank you, Darlington. This was a poem about a relationship from 13 years ago. It’s bugged me a lot that I just let this guy use me and I didn’t argue or get up and leave so I wrote a poem about it today. A long time after it all happened.

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  3. Okay. The important thing is to learn from those experiences and use them to grow and become a better version of ourselves.πŸ’–

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    1. So true. I agree with you xx

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